It's very stressful to care for a cancer patient, and most don't want the help or for you to see them at their worst.
My sister finally figured out that her friends needed to feel needed, and she finally allowed them to do simple tasks to help. Like mail the bills, vacuum or do a load of laundry...
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on 2010-10-16 12:02 pm (UTC)It's very stressful to care for a cancer patient, and most don't want the help or for you to see them at their worst.
My sister finally figured out that her friends needed to feel needed, and she finally allowed them to do simple tasks to help. Like mail the bills, vacuum or do a load of laundry...
Great update ~ Kathleen