It would be boring if we'd all agree *gg* I love a good discussion. Sometime someone says something and I think "O, right, I never thought about that".
IMO they're both stubborn and they really suck at compromises, which IMO is the main problem in S5. I wouldn't call any of them selfish. (Melanie is a selfish character for me)
But Brian can be very disrespectful.
I also never wanted them to marry, that would've been way too much! So YEAH for cancelling the wedding, but also YEAH for proposing.
But... the thing is, IMO Justin totally ignored his own wishes and needings to be with Brian, simply because he loved Brian and thought he could handle it, but you can't always ignore what you want and need, it just doesn't work. One day you'll get angry when nothing changes and you start to expect more. So IMO Justin was right to leave when he realized that he was expecting too much.
Sure, it was sad and I felt way more sorry for Brian in S5 than in S2, but way its better than waiting until it escalates again, as it did in S2.
And ... it was about time that Brian let his walls fall.
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on 2010-10-12 12:46 pm (UTC)IMO they're both stubborn and they really suck at compromises, which IMO is the main problem in S5. I wouldn't call any of them selfish. (Melanie is a selfish character for me)
But Brian can be very disrespectful.
I also never wanted them to marry, that would've been way too much! So YEAH for cancelling the wedding, but also YEAH for proposing.
But... the thing is, IMO Justin totally ignored his own wishes and needings to be with Brian, simply because he loved Brian and thought he could handle it, but you can't always ignore what you want and need, it just doesn't work. One day you'll get angry when nothing changes and you start to expect more. So IMO Justin was right to leave when he realized that he was expecting too much.
Sure, it was sad and I felt way more sorry for Brian in S5 than in S2, but way its better than waiting until it escalates again, as it did in S2.
And ... it was about time that Brian let his walls fall.